This week we have Chloe* who was ghosted by adude who literally farted in bed after having sex with her 😛 TAGEND
I matched with this guy on Tinder, and we chatted for a while before I kind of forgot about the convo( oops ).
A few a few weeks later, we matched again on Bumble. I messaged him there, apologizing for being the reason our convo succumbed, and said I hoped I could make it up to him on Bumble. He agreed.
Our conversation was fun and filled with lots of flirty GIFs, so where reference is asked a question out for drinkings, I said yes. He seemed a little different in person, but he was still cute. We got along very well and had a ton in common. And after our date aimed, and we were waiting for the metro together, he kissed me. The whole night was really great.
Then, he asked me to hang out for a second time. This was when things started to get weird.
We met for bottomless brunch that Sunday in his neighborhood. We spent a couple hours there, then went back to his apartment to chill for the rest of the working day, where we hooked up a bunch( didn’t have sex ), watched, and had some drinkings. It was, again, really great. I didn’t go home until around 10 p.m.
But as soon as I left, I realise I left my very expensive Kate Spade watch that my mom got me for Christmas several years ago that I do not take off ever at his place. I texted him in a panic to please take care of my watch until I came back to retrieve it. He responded that he would.
The next day was the Fourth of July. I texted him some random things just as an excuse to have dialogue, but he didn’t answer any of my texts the working day. My friends were like, maybe he’s drunk, it’s Fourth of July, don’t overthink it, he likes you, etc. But usually, he answered me pretty quickly, so I was still am worried that he was ghosting me. I was a little bummed because I liked him, but I was the most upset because I needed to get my f* cking watch back from him.
The next morning, I texted him the fourth in a series of three previously unanswered text messages, and this conversation happened 😛 TAGEND
Now, he’s definitely someone who would make funny remarks like that and troll me a little. But because he literally did not answer my texts the previous day, I had no notion if he was just being his playful ego or if he actually wanted me to go away and was going to take my beloved watch with him.
We constructed plans to meet up at his apartment that night so I could pick up my watch. I didn’t know if he wanted to also hang out in addition to me getting my watch, so I tried to drop the we can get Seamless’ bomb to gauge his reaction about me hanging around longer 😛 TAGEND
After, I still wasn’t super convinced that he to hang out, so I asked him immediately to confirm 😛 TAGEND
His answer still wasn’t good enough for me, as he emphasized , not his, was intended to hang out. But I accepted it.
I know this whole did he want to hang out too? ‘ thing seems insignificant, but I felt awkward strolling into hisapartment without knowing if I was just coming and leaving, or if I could, like, take my shoes off and stay a while. I knew I definitely needed to see him to get my watch back, but I didn’t want to impose a hang out if he didn’t want one and was just being too embarrassedto admit it.
I also knew that we were likely going to have sex if we hung out, and I really didn’t want to have sex with a guy who originally had no interest in watching me anymore.
Anyway, I went over to his apartment afterward that night and got my watch. We got cuddly on his couch and objective up hanging out for a few hours. Perhaps he wasn’t intending on ghosting me at all, right ??
JK, HE WAS. We haven’t spoken since that night.
This is the last of our convo, which happened right before I got to his place to get my watch 😛 TAGEND
Bonus event of that evening: We objective up having sex. In the heat of the moment, I wanted it( as one does ), but I was a little meh’ about it after I realized I’d been ghosted.
I laughed. What else was I supposed to do? We’re all human, I.
LOL. THIS FREAKING GUY.
It wasn’t bad enough that he had tofart in bed with her, but he had to add insult to injury by ghosting her after the fact ?! Brutal.
Honestly, my best guess in this situation isthat he was too embarrassed to talk to her again after the whole farting snafu. Either that or he’s only another jerkwad who decided tohit it and discontinue it, which, candidly, I’ll never be able to understand the rationale behind.
What do you guys guess his reasoning might have been? Do you or any of your friends have a similar experience? Share your responses below!