Acceptance of exploring sexuality.
Lady wants a sexuality plaything : no problem Lady wants to express her kink : no problem Man wants a sex doll : pervert!
It’s all ridiculous and washed over because people feel that men get pats in the back for having high numbers like our sexuality can only be tied to our partners.
I watched an episode of “Ellen” with my girlfriend once where Jake Gyllenhal came on. Ellen spent the entire interview trying to talk him into taking off his shirt. Then, she had male strippers come out into the audience to dance, one was wearing a Cubs hat, and the other a Cleveland Indian hat. Whichever got the most fund shoved in his jock would determine the “winner” of the World Series.
Now, imagine an afternoon talk reveal where a man hosting maintained trying to get his female guests to take off their clothes and then had strippers come out for virtually no reason, and it was on a major network station. How large of an outcry would there be? The host would be considered an asshole and sexist prick. Ellen got a presidential recognition medal.
I see it again and again, where some women objectify humen the route they hate to be objectified themselves. That’s the one that get me too.
My work has ” casual Fridays”
I regularly assure women in open toed shoes around the office all week. So on casual Fridays I thought it was ok to wear flip flops with jeans.
I was called into the office of my administrator and told I could not wear flip flops or sandals of any kind as humen cannot wear open toe shoes even on” casual Fridays”
As a man , not being able to appreciate cute children in public.
I’m a father of toddler so I’m in the stage of life where I notice children more often. If I insure a little girl in a cute dress or a little boy in a cool little suit I kind of want to tell the mother. But I realise if I did that I could easily scare the parent and even sound like a creeper.
Even writing what I only did I feel like I will be judged as a creeper. Which various kinds of constructs it a difficult double standard to shake because frankly if some random human said my son was garmented nicely/ appeared good I most certainly would be wary of him….
It peeings me off that we have to accept women who won’t deem dating men who aren’t six foot tall or have a six inch penis as having “preferences” yet men cannot say they don’t want to date a woman who is fat or obese.
Now I’m not one of those men who are into fit females but they shouldn’t be made to feel ashamed for what they are attracted to.
Oh, what about’ Ladies Night ‘? Ladies admitted free before 10?