After six solo adventures, I’ve learned the ins-and-outs about what it’s like to go off on your own. Here are a few bits of wisdom I picked up along the way.
There’s no right or wrong way to solo traveling. Do what it is you want, without worry about what other people expect you to be doing. If you want to sleep, sleep. If you don’t want to see that culture monument, don’t. No one, even someone with solo travelling experience, can tell you how this trip-up is going to go. Each person’s solo escapades are experienced uniquely to that person. So before you go, try really hard to clear out all the tales you’ve read and heard.
It’s okay to not know what you’re getting yourself into. There are so many things that are and aren’t going to happen on this trip that you could never expect. But you should also be truthful about the things you do want and need. If you want to gratify new people, then you can plan your trip-up in such a way that caters to that. If you want to sleep a bit more comfortably, expend the extra money and make it happen.
This doesn’t induce you weak and doesn’t “re going to have to” take away from your trip-up. If you are in a moment of fear or loneliness, send that text or induce that bellow. As long as you’re being honest with yourself about the journey of the trip, there’s nothing you can do that they are able to make it less yours .
Leave some room for spontaneity and unforeseeable adventures.
…and hyper self-aware of your awkwardness and insecurities. This is not meant to scare you, but being alone in a new place and session new people can be terrifying. But remember, there’s a reason you want to do this, and there’s also an internal knowing that you can do this if you’re going through with it.
And never keep it in the same place. You won’t have person with you to spot you, or someone to rely on bailing you out. You never know when you’ll need to convert more fund, when cash is the only payment type accepted or if you’ll lose your credit cards.
You never know when you might need it.
These include the hotel or hostel you’re staying at, your credit card’s international number and the local U.S. embassy.
They may have free shuttles and great tips for transportation to and from the airport.
You are responsible for your belongings from the minute you land to the minute you’re back on the return flight. You’re going to want to be able to comfortably carry your luggage, whether it’s walking up three flights of stairs in a hostel or taking public transportation to and from the airport. Plus, “youve never” know if you’re going to spontaneously want to hop on a develop to a neighboring city for a night.
You’re not going to need several pairs of shoes; always pack comfortable strolling/ escapade shoes. Pack light, because you’ll likely repeat outfits( and depending on the length of your journey, you can do laundry while traveling ). Choose a practical day-pack with zippers and pockets so you can store everything safely over a nice purse or purse. And pack travel-sized, must-need toiletries so you can hurl them out or leave them there.
For your toiletries; for saving stubs and tickets; for securing your phone when you arbitrarily go hiking in the rain.
Just do it.
Cards are a great way to break the ice with other travelers. A good book is great company at coffeehouse, solo dinners and on a bench with a spectacular position.
Journaling is a great way to jot down adventures, but it’s also a good for exploring feelings and thinks of loneliness, awkwardness and fear. At the very least, always publication on the flight to your journey, and on the flight back home. It’s incredible to watch the difference in your mindset.
Walking tours are a free and fun way to see the city and satisfy people. Most hostels host events like community dinners and tavern crawlings so travelers can meet one another, and a lot of them also have community committees with other travelers looking for company on random day trips.
Wandering without any time restraints is a wonderful style to watch things you didn’t find on forums or in guidebooks.
As long as you’re safe, if you feel a pang of being lost, keep roaming. There have been many times where I could have stopped, paralyzed with fear that I wouldn’t find my style, but as I maintained wandering things started to look familiar or I’d meet someone willing to help me.
Talking to strangers can be a scary accomplishment, but take that deck of cards and talk to that group of travelers. Hang out in common spaces in the hostel. Make eye contact, smile and be aware of how you’re presenting your friendliness. Initiate dialogues when you have the slightest desire to do so. Run to that social event by yourself. In all my experiences of solo traveling, and in general of talking to strangers( something I’ve gotten good at ), people are likely to be kind back to you, nine-out-of-1 0 times.
I can’t stress this enough. Even if it’s the guy who works at the grocery store as you’re buying a bottle of water, ask locals for must-see spots and eats. They’ll give you tips you wouldn’t have been able to know of on your own. And ask locals about their narratives how long have they been living here? How has the city changed after X event happened? You’ll directly learn so much about the history and culture of a place by talking to the people who live there.
Don’t fight them off and don’t be upset when they( and they will) overwhelm you. They are critical and uncomfortable aspects of traveling alone, but they will teach you so much about yourself.
You are equipped with everything you need strength, intuition, a sense of adventure to make this journey everything it should be for you.
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