As I grew older, I realise my circle of friends became smaller. You’ll be so close to one person today, and abruptly you aren’t talking anymore. It’s life. People grow apart rather than grow as a part of you. Accept that and move on. Bringing me to my next point 😛 TAGEND
There is no free lunch, ever. You have to pay for it one way or another. People leave for a reason, so learn from that and move on. Take that as a learning experience. Some broken relationships might be a blessing in disguise even if you don’t see it at the moment. You may be hurt, but you might be the one hurting someone else. When a relationship ends, it will hurt. And it’s okay to shout. Bawl your eyes out. However, after those tears, get your ass up and move on. You can look back, and do it. Because it’s when you learn the lessons you paid with this relationship to learn. So learn it well. Seem back, but recollect: Never ever let it affect you so much you can’t move forward in life.
These people are hard to come by. Generally, if anyone acts to gracious towards you, they want something in return. You know who are true only when you fuck up. People who stick with you through your bullshit are real. That’s it. People who leave? Let them. There’s no point dwelling on nonsense like that. It’s not worth your emotions.
You need to constantly make an effort to nurture that r/ s. Don’t neglect person because you think they will always be there. No, they won’t. As period pass, you drift apart and that is how everything tumbles downhill. If you treasure that relationship, prove it. Devote every friendship your 100% and don’t be afraid to get hurt. Because even if it doesn’t work out, you know you’ve done the best you can. You did everything in your power and you have no regrets whatsoever.
You will often look at your peers, cousins, colleagues and close friends green with bitternes. They’ve got those achievements you don’t have, “peoples lives” looks perfect. Or maybe that’s what you think. Everyone have their struggles no matter how great it looks. You never know. Just concentrate on your patch of grass, water it well, and it will grow longer and greener as days pass. Nothing comes easy, you have to work for your shit.
Never. You cannot. Do things you love, go all out. Say what you say, do what you do. You do you, and if there are people who hates whatever you’re doing, let them. People who matters will not care, and people who care, don’t matter. Don’t change yourself to please them, because they will not be contented. There will always be something for people to talk about. However, you need to know who to please to stimulate your life easier.
By pleasing I don’t mean full on sucking on their balls and maybe even their dick.( You get what I entail .) No. I entail talk to them, know what they like, and what they don’t like. Run out for lunch with them. Don’t go sucking up to them, though. No one likes that. Just be there. Your presence entail everything. As hour passes, bonds and relationships will be formed. Make sure you form it well. And it will do you good.
Get out, to know people. Interact even if you hate it. We all need to start somewhere. Do volunteer, internships, and part-time chores even if it means you’re doing the unpleasant tasks. Know names, take business card, put your name out there and make sure you make an impression. Why? Because when you go out there and do shit, you’ll need these people. It’s easier to get to where you want to go when people already know who you are. So do yourself a favor.
Stop. Complaining. About. How. Much. Your. Life. Sucks. Severely, literally no one cares. So if it sucks that much, do anything about it. The ball is in your tribunal. You make a conscious decision to do something, you will be prepared to bear whatever outcomes that comes together with it. Because at the end of the day, you’re responsible for yourself. No one will give worm turd about you.
You are responsible for yourself. Your mothers don’t owe you anything, your boss don’t owe you anything, and your lecturers don’t owe you anything. You want something? You work hard and earn it. Don’t expect anyone to do anything for you. If they do, it’s a privilege , not an entitlement. Remember that.
I’d rather someone love me for my personality and knowledge than my appears. Carry yourself with respect, confidence and kindness, all will be well. You insure people talking shit about a pretty face with an ugly personality, but “youve never” insure people talking shit about someone who has an awesome personality but a below average appearance. As you grow older, you really realize, your physical appearance truly DOESN’T MATTER.
It’s not. Your stupid pride isn’t worth shit. Set that pride down, and apologize when it’s needed. Friendships and relationships are worth far more than your stupid pride. Even if you dislike your boss, you put that pride down and you say good morning when you assure him. Because if you don’t say it, what do you think you’ll get out from it? Your useless pride and the risk of getting on that grumpy ass boss’s bad side. Not worth it.
Don’t look at others for validation. You’re going to be let down very often. Validate yourself. Same runs for happiness. Don’t rely on anyone for happiness, you’re going to unavoidably be let down. Love yourself. And be confident. It’s sexy as fucking. I’m fat? Great! Do you know how difficult it is to maintain a body fat percentage like that without it increasing or lessening ?! It takes hard work. Eating donuts at 12 am isn’t easy when you need sleep too, okay?
People are bound to judge. They will pass comments. And they will not care about how “youre feeling”. Learn to laugh at yourself, you’ll find joy in that. Don’t not take what they say to heart. Analyze, and if it’s bullcrap, hurl that away in the bin. Let them do them, and you do you! Use your actions and achievements to demonstrate them incorrect. However, do recollect to take in constructive criticism. That’s how you grow.
You work as hard as someone but they get what they want and you don’t? Suck it up. Life isn’t fair, and it will never be. Work hard, and if you work hard enough, you are able to get to where you want to be. Eventually.
Stick to your values and do not get swayed. You believe in second opportunities? Dedicate that chance. You want to be vegan? Do merely that. You want to be kind to people who least deserve it? Be kind as fucking. Don’t change who you are for someone who can’t accept you for you.
Always. Always. Always. You’ll never get everything you want in life, but that’s life. Be contented with what you have, and you will be happy. There will always be someone better, richer, most attractive. You’ll never win, so don’t. Strive for the best version of yourself , not the best of someone else.
We all have our own combats to fight every single day. But select it wisely. Is it worth fighting for? It is worth bruising your arm and cutting your knee? Prioritize. Also, very importantly, count your victories. A small step forward is a huge step in achieving what it is you want to achieve.
There’s always two parts of the story. Always, always emphasize rather than sympathize. Put yourself in their shoes and understand why they do what they did. Take a step back and look at the bigger scene that is in front of you. More than often, we consider things how we want them to be even though in most cases, it isn’t what our intellects induced it out to be. Underscore, it’s a very empowering situate of skill.
Even if people take it for awarded. Be kind. Kindness runs a long way.
Notify me of follow-up comments by email.
Notify me of new posts by email.
Register now to get updates on promotions and coupons.